Saturday, January 8, 2011

Sad day

Today, our family dog passed away. His name was Frasier, and he was a German Shepherd/Chow mix. He lived with my parents in Texas, but I spend 7 years living with him too before I went to college. I picked him out as a puppy. He was the roly poly chubby puppy of the bunch. He grew up to be a very handsome boy!



He just turned 10 in October. He was the most active and healthy dog I know of. He never showed any signs of aging. They were not sure what happened for sure. After he died they took him into surgery and found he had a cancerous tumor on his spleen that had ruptured. This is apparently an aggressive form of cancer that goes undetected can cause sudden death. Even if they had found it sooner the prognosis would of been poor.

I'm numb by this. I had grown up with animals who had been ill and passed away or old and passed away. Frasier was in tip top shape and up until yesterday morning. I really don't believe it. On Thursday on he phone with my parents I heard him jumping around and barking happily. I feel sad I live so far away and wasn't able to see him in a long time. He was a great dog and great member of the family. I feel upset for my parents. They loved this dog so much, as did I.  They also have had a vacation planned for awhile and they are leaving today. I know this wasn't the ideal situation they'd want to go off on vacation with. I still hope they are able to enjoy their time off since they both work so hard.

On the somewhat brighter side, I'm glad Frasier had life full of good health and happiness. He will be missed by our family so much. No one can replace him. He was the sweetest boy.
 

Have a nice Saturday,

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  1. Mimi (MakeupWithdrawal)January 8, 2011 at 11:23 AM

    Oh Steph, I'm so sorry! :( I can't imagine what it's like to lose a part of your family like that over night.
    I'm not that great with words of condolences, but I am good at offering e-hugs!
    ******hugs galore*****

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  2. FreshieJanuary 8, 2011 at 11:26 AM

    I'm so sorry Steph, it's so hard to lose a member of your family, especially one who doesn't always understand what is going on. It sounds like he had a super rich life with a great family who loved him so take comfort in that.

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  3. jaljenJanuary 8, 2011 at 11:29 AM

    My commiserations. Lovely dog. And the memories NEVER die.

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  4. JustMeJanuary 8, 2011 at 11:35 AM

    I am really sorry! I know what u feel now. Keep him in good memory and in your heart.xxx

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  5. Enamel GirlJanuary 8, 2011 at 11:47 AM

    awwww i'm sorry to hear about Frasier. i know it's hard, especially when unexpected.

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  6. LJanuary 8, 2011 at 11:49 AM

    Oh this post made me cry. You all are in my prayers. What a handsome dog!

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  7. Colores de carolJanuary 8, 2011 at 11:51 AM

    I'm so sorry!
    Hugs!!

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  8. MichelleJanuary 8, 2011 at 11:54 AM

    I'm sorry to hear this. You're in my thoughts.

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  9. TierneyJanuary 8, 2011 at 11:56 AM

    I'm the same as Mimi, I'm not great with the words.. But I'm really sorry. I know how shocking that is.. Our family dog died a couple years ago when he was 10 and he had been perfectly active and healthy as well. It was very random. Again, I'm so sorry for you and your parents. Hugs!!

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  10. UnknownJanuary 8, 2011 at 12:19 PM

    It's hard to lose a pet. :'(

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  11. Jessica D.January 8, 2011 at 12:35 PM

    so sorry to hear about your dog, it's so hard to lose a part of the family and so suddenly. our dog is getting up there in years, and I can't even think about her not being around. you and your family are in my thoughts.

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  12. UnknownJanuary 8, 2011 at 12:53 PM

    I read your blog but I don't usually comments, but I thought I'd pop in and send you some hugs. Losing a pet is always so heartbreaking x

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  13. attackedastoriaJanuary 8, 2011 at 12:56 PM

    Oh no, I'm so sorry. :( Losing a pet is like losing family, and this hit me hard since I have sheps myself. I'm bad with words, but try and take comfort in the fact that he had a nice fulfilling life with a loving family.

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  14. AnitaJanuary 8, 2011 at 1:07 PM

    I'm so sorry! I know how it is to lose a beloved pet.

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  15. 1xellus1January 8, 2011 at 1:10 PM

    I'm sorry for your loss. He looked like a sweetheart. I always wanted a German Shepherd when I was a kid.

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  16. Nail FanaticJanuary 8, 2011 at 1:18 PM

    Sorry for your loss Steph. Being a dog owner I understand the pain and hardship you and your family are going through. Sudden losses are the worse to cope with. He looks like a lovely dog. We all know he's in doggy heaven now :)

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  17. AnnieJanuary 8, 2011 at 1:19 PM

    I'm so sorry! Pets are family so losing them is really hard. Many many hugs for you.

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  18. RiaJanuary 8, 2011 at 2:04 PM

    So so sorry to hear that Steph.I understand how you feel, and it is bad.I'm sure he's in pup heaven looking after you :)
    Many many hugs to you!
    Take care!

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  19. AnonymousJanuary 8, 2011 at 2:14 PM

    Stephanie, I'm so sorry to hear about Frasier. Hugs to you and your family.

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  20. Johanna (Paillette)January 8, 2011 at 2:17 PM

    I am so sorry!!
    I lost my dog to Lymphoma last December, it still hurts!

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  21. Libby's Pink VanityJanuary 8, 2011 at 2:25 PM

    How terribly sad you must be. It does sound like Frasier had a great life. Hugs to you during your time of grief.

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  22. UnknownJanuary 8, 2011 at 2:52 PM

    i am so sorry to hear this, I went through a similar thing last year when my chihuahua just overnight grew a large tumor on the side of his neck, we battled cancer for 4 months and it was very tough. He made it to 10.5 years and it was very difficult to say good buy but i know he's at peace now.I still have his mother she'll be 13 in april and im doing what i can to keep her for as long as i can , she has heart issues and is on 4 different meds. But i totally understand how you feel i've had these dogs since my teens. Animals have a way of getting into our hearts and staying there forever even after they have to move on. He will live on in all the good memories you have of him!

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  23. MaryJanuary 8, 2011 at 3:00 PM

    I'm so sorry for you and your family. These pets are no less than full-fledged family members--only they never fight with us or make fun of us--they're better than family! Know that he had a happy life thanks to you all, and that as much as gave to him throughout his life, he gave you so much more. Sending hugs and prayers your way, and I can promise you it does get easier with time. But you never stop missing them--Greta & Gus send you a German Shepherd fur-filled hug :))

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  24. AprilJanuary 8, 2011 at 3:33 PM

    Oh Stephanie, I'm so sorry about your dog. He looks so sweet in that picture.

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  25. The Beauty B.January 8, 2011 at 4:21 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss. It's very difficult to lose a family pet. It's like losing a member of the family. My heart goes out to you!

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  26. ErikaJanuary 8, 2011 at 4:21 PM

    I'm so sorry about Frasier. (hug)

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  27. Recalcitrant NailsJanuary 8, 2011 at 5:26 PM

    You know how sorry I am for your loss. Losing one's family pet is one of the most difficult things. I'm glad he was healthy all his life and brought everyone great joy.

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  28. SkuldaJanuary 8, 2011 at 5:27 PM

    RIP, Frasier! He had a wonderful life with you and your parents.

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  29. AnonymousJanuary 8, 2011 at 6:40 PM

    Awww I'm so sorry, I know what it's like to loose your dog :(

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  30. Michelle L.January 8, 2011 at 7:45 PM

    So very sorry! Gotta go give my baby, Zoe, a hug! She's 4 & I'm so paranoid something like this will happen to her! I just lost my 18 1/2 year old cat & still grieving. It was like losing a child! Know that he knew he was loved & had a better life than a lot of people. That's what I've had to tell myself when he couldn't fight anymore & I had to make that decision noone should ever have to make. It helps a little. *hugs* :)

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  31. MissMidnightBlueJanuary 8, 2011 at 8:45 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss! :( I had a dog like that too he was the best dog I ever had. When he died I cried so much cause he really was my best friend growing up. RIP Frasier. :(

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  32. finished10dnailsJanuary 8, 2011 at 10:49 PM

    I'm so sorry to read of your loss. Hugs to you and your family! You'll see him again at the other side of the Rainbow Bridge

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  33. KatieJanuary 8, 2011 at 11:54 PM

    I want to offer my deepest sympathy and prayers for you and your family. This is never easy to go through. I've been there twice in the last several years.
    Always remember to think of the good times, and may your handsome guy fly with the angels.

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  34. Alice @ NailsbyAliceJanuary 9, 2011 at 3:56 AM

    *hugs* i'm sorry about this... I think it's always hard to lose a friend :(

    My dog is about 16 years old (he was homeless so I don't know his correct age) and he suffer from heart so we have to be prepared since every day is a gift...

    Hope you feel better soon...

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  35. MillieJanuary 9, 2011 at 4:40 AM

    Terribly sorry for you. I know what it's like to lose a pet suddenly. My birds mean the world to me - 1 day I walked outside with both on my shoulder and one flew away, never to be seen again. I grieved and felt so guilty for months. Hope it gets better for you.

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  36. Gondor TariJanuary 9, 2011 at 12:48 PM

    I´m very sorry for your lost. I had a dog too and I know wahts that cause mine has a heart problem.

    Hope u all take it the best u can.

    Kisses for all of u.

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  37. april brooksJanuary 9, 2011 at 12:52 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

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  38. Nail Designs xoxJanuary 9, 2011 at 2:13 PM

    I'm so sorry! I used to have a dog that was healthy and her last week she stopped doing anything. Come to find out she had cancer in her nose.

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  39. KIM STAMJanuary 10, 2011 at 4:10 AM

    I am really very sorry for your loss.. unfortunately there are many of us who can connect with your pain, I myself lost my pup when he was only 3yrs old.

    K.x

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  40. SandiJanuary 10, 2011 at 4:45 AM

    I am so sorry to hear this Steph. My condolences to you and your parents. Although it's hard not to have had a chance to say goodbye, I am glad that Frasier didn't suffer and was happy and full of life to the end. If you've never heard about the Rainbow Bridge, it's worth a google.

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  41. NinaJanuary 10, 2011 at 10:23 AM

    I'm so sorry for your loss - he was so beautiful. My husband's parents recently lost both of their dogs, and it's been very hard for them. I'm glad your family had such a good, long time with Frasier - a good dog is such a treasure.

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  42. AnonymousJanuary 11, 2011 at 1:01 AM

    I'm sorry about Frasier Steph, especially when his death was so sudden. :( My thoughts go out to you and your family whilst you grieve.

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  43. DonnaJanuary 11, 2011 at 9:41 AM

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Our cat has been gone a year and a half but a day doesn't go by without us thinking of her and missing her so much. Pets really are family members, when she left she took a piece of our hearts with her. No doubt, you and your parents feel the same way about Frasier. Sending you love and hugs, and my condolences.

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  44. CamyJanuary 11, 2011 at 12:24 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss :(

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  45. kellieFebruary 23, 2011 at 10:26 AM

    ugh, I'm so sorry .. xoxo

    he was lucky to have such a loving home.

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